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How To Insert Penis In Vagina Question

How To Insert Penis In Vagina Question

Question by Susan Doyle (Name changed for anonymity)


He bends before he can enter my vagina! Normal for large penis?

December 9th, 2013
My fiance and I have a serious difficulty when it comes to having sex. He is thirty-one and I am twenty-six. He has a large penis, especially in width, and it is almost impossible to get it in my vagina because the head of his penis bends rather than slips in.

I have only had sex with two men previously and both of them had *very* hard penises, however, they were average size men, not particularly large in width or length. They had no problem entering into my vagina, however.

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My fiance has a hard time finding my vagina because when he tries to slip it inside me, the head of his penis bends rather than presses inward--he's just not as hard as other men I've been with, but he doesn't seem to realize this. In fact, he said something along the lines of how he didn't care about our sex issues because he loved me, as though it's something to do with me. Even if I grab the end of his penis and press it into my vagina, I have to "stuff" it in there because it's just not hard enough to go in without my forcing it.

I think maybe if he wasn't wider than my vagina it might be easier, but I still wonder if what he thinks is hard (his penis apparently gets as hard as it ever has) is not really as hard as he should be. He even mentioned once that maybe he needed to stop masturbating because since my vagina is not as tight as his hand, he doesn't get the same sensation. I now wonder if this is a side effect of how hard he gets.

Is this a problem we could deal with or is this difficulty normal for wider penises? (Maybe they don't get as stiff or seem more bendy because it's harder for them to enter the vaginal canal?)

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I really don't know what to do. I don't really care all that much for my sake because I orgasm from clitoral stimulation, not vaginal entry, so if that doesn't happen then it doesn't bother me, but I feel bad for him. And also a little bad for me since he seems to wonder if it's something about me!

It's not that he has trouble getting aroused. He's pretty much always ready to go (and I can feel him through his pants whenever we make out) and eagerly instigates sex all the time, but then we have this problem! We've tried various positions (missionary, me on top, behind, from the side), but each one is equally difficult. I've guided his penis, stuffing it inside me, and I have also showed him my vagina with our fingers so he could have a better understanding of where it is, but still he has difficulty finding it because when it's at the vagina, it can't enter easily due to the bending! I don't know if he's had this problem with previous girlfriends because I have only mentioned in passing that it seems like he isn't as hard as previous boyfriends (instead I have brushed it off as being due to his large size which makes him groan about something every guy wants coming back to bite him on the ass).

Can anyone tell me if this is normal and, if not, what I might be able to do about it, or at least what I might talk to him about?

Source:

http://ehealthforum.com/health/he-bends-before-he-can-enter-my-vagina-normal-for-large-penis-t376843-a1.html

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