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My fiance and I have a serious difficulty when it comes to having sex. He is thirty-one and I am twenty-six. He has a large penis, especially in width, and it is almost impossible to get it in my vagina because the head of his penis bends rather than slips in.
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What you are experiencing is called unconsummated sex.

The most common cause of penis not going in vagina is that the opening of vagina goes into involuntary spasm called vaginismus. This closes the entrance door.
It is best to seek guidance from a Sex Therapist. Till then here are some guidelines.

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What is Finger Exercise?

• 1. Until the Finger Exercise is practiced well and completed do not even attempt to insert penis in vagina.
• 2. First let him insert one finger inside the vagina. Alternatively, you or both of you may do this when you make out. You will notice that this is painful. With persistence keep practicing until the finger glides in with ease.
• 3. Don't even attempt insertion of penis.
• 4. Then begin with insertion of two fingers. You will again notice pain.
• These steps of finger exercise can take some weeks to months depending upon your perseverance and the intensity of vaginismus.
• 5. When two fingers slide in easily, then is the time for attempting insertion of penis in vagina. You are ready to insert.

Which Sex Position Is Best?

Any comfortable sexual position is okay. If you wish to experiment try this position as it enables him to see her genitals and watch the penis go in. He cannot see where the penis is going in the missionary position. In this sex position she lies with her back on the bed and buttocks at the edge of the bed. He stands at the edge of the bed facing her.

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How to insert penis in vagina?

She holds the penis and directs it at the entrance of the vagina. Even if it is dark she knows precisely where the entrance is. It is the same place from where menstrual bleeding comes out. It is the same place from where a baby is born. This tells us that vagina is elastic and can stretch to allow a baby slip out through its passage. Vagina is like a tiny balloon that can be expanded to big size.
The entrance of the vagina is not open like your nostrils. It is a potential space, much like your mouth with lips closed. When he pushes the penis in, it will not slide easily and enter in one go. In fact, it will keep making way centimeter by centimeter through the vaginal passage. Frequently he may have to bring out and reinsert the penis. The vaginal passage is like palms of two hands facing and meeting each other, the way Asian Indians do 'Namaste' as their customary greeting. What is happening is the opening has let the penis go in, but the muscles surrounding the vagina further up are slowly, gradually relaxing. So the insertion can take several minutes. She and he will know unmistakably when the penis is gone fully inside.
After few dozen times of such insertion of penis in vagina the vaginismus goes away. The pubococcygeous muscles surrounding the vagina no more go in an involuntary spasm.
You have done it.
Note:
Ihave not used the word 'penetration'. Instead I have used the word 'insertion'. Doesn't penetration sound harsh compared to the gentler word insertion?

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